Love in the World

Hi everyone! This blog will entry will be about "love".

First off, love is such a complicated subject!! The love I will be talking about is that of 2 people in love and also people who want love.

Being in love is one of the greatest feelings in the world; don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Being in love is wonderful!! You have some who cares about you and will be there through the happy and tough times in life. You also care about the other person.

Being in love, in a relationship, requires give and take. If Scott wants to see the latest action movie, Kate says "ok" because they already saw the latest chick-flick.

Two people in love truly care about each other. They respect each other and share life experiences with each other. Respecting one another means they would never hurt one another, whether it be physically or emotionally.

On the other hand, there are peole who want love. Those are the types of people who will stop at nothing to get what they want. And they ultimately want "love". I'm not saying those people are wrong, because they're not; everyone wants to be loved. It is wrong when they go about it in the wrong way. What I mean is this... some women think "I NEED a man. I can't be alone. I want a man to love me. I need a man." In other words, some women think they need a man to validate who they are as a person. This is not right!!!

Personal story: I was alone for 10 years before I met the man I'm with now. I needed to be alone to figure out who I was and what I wanted in a man. In those 10 years, I discovered who I was and what I wanted in a man. Because of that discovery time, I can give 100% of myself to the man I'm with now.

Women do not need a man to validate who they are. Being alone is not bad!! Everyone, men and women, need to figure out who they are before they make a commitment. Love is a great treasure. As the Bible says "Love is patient, Love is kind. It is not boastful".

If you are in a relationship that is going nowhere, get out. I realize it's easier said than done but think about it... Would you rather be in a relationship where you're loved OR one that you're treated like a piece of dirt????

What are YOUR comments?